Pro-lifers what part of CHOICE don't you understand?

My son was far enough along to have a heartbeat, finger and toes when my ex murdered him. I searched desperately for a way to save his life and was told repeatedly that I was just a man and couldn't do anything about it. Now if she had wanted him and I didn't those same people who told me I had no rights would have been all over me to pay up on my responsibilities. Abortion is how a woman abandons her unwanted children, there is none of the social stigma ociated with "deadbeat dads", which is strange to me considering when a woman doesn't want to take responsibility for her reproductive decisions the baby doesn't even have the chance to live.